Calvinism vs. Arminianism - Does God Choose Us or Do We Choose God?

Allen Parr recently posted a video summarizing the differences between Calvinism and Arminianism. I largely agree with what he said. He did not endorse one over the other but treated the issue as important but not worth anathematizing anyone.

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Parr's video caught Leighton Flower's attention and he posted a response video. What amazed me was that it seemed to me that Flowers did not really understand what Parr said.