Many times people take a verse out of context because they don't read the surrounding verses but that excuse can't be used here. Jesus is not saying that children should be thrown into the sea tied to millstones and drowned. Jesus said that the people who hurt those who follow him, especially children, it would be better that they have stones tied around their necks and drowned than what will actually happen to him. In other words, hurting children will get you a worse punishment than having a stone tied around your neck and drown in the sea. The concrete shoes treatment would be getting off easy. The passage is pointing out how important children are to God.
20 “Look, Lord, and consider:
Whom have you ever treated like this?
Should women eat their offspring,
the children they have cared for?
Should priest and prophet be killed
in the sanctuary of the Lord?
Whom have you ever treated like this?
Should women eat their offspring,
the children they have cared for?
Should priest and prophet be killed
in the sanctuary of the Lord?
21 “Young and old lie together
in the dust of the streets;
my young men and young women
have fallen by the sword.
You have slain them in the day of your anger;
you have slaughtered them without pity.
in the dust of the streets;
my young men and young women
have fallen by the sword.
You have slain them in the day of your anger;
you have slaughtered them without pity.
22 “As you summon to a feast day,
so you summoned against me terrors on every side.
In the day of the Lord’s anger
no one escaped or survived;
those I cared for and reared
my enemy has destroyed.” - Lamentations 2:20-22
so you summoned against me terrors on every side.
In the day of the Lord’s anger
no one escaped or survived;
those I cared for and reared
my enemy has destroyed.” - Lamentations 2:20-22
This was the prophet Jeremiah crying out to God about the destruction and destitution his people were enduring. Mothers were eating their children because Jerusalem had no more food because the Babylonians had been starving them out over. Jeremiah is describing what happened. God is not prescribing what we should be doing or saying that this was a good a thing. This was a horror and a consequence of their sin. God had given them centuries to repent and they would not. So this way wrath and judgement. Take note because your turn is coming if you refuse to repent and turn to God.
10 Therefore in your midst parents will eat their children, and children will eat their parents. I will inflict punishment on you and will scatter all your survivors to the winds. - Ezekiel 5:10
The prophet Ezekiel was one of Jeremiah's contemporaries. He was given the same message to their people as Jeremiah said. Again this was not something people were supposed to do. This was punishment for their evil and rebellion again God.
24 Then the Lord rained down burning sulfur on Sodom and Gomorrah—from the Lord out of the heavens. - Genesis 19:24
The graphic appears to be saying the God likes to burn children to death because he destroy Sodom and Gomorrah. However these two cities were extraordinary wicked and God can choose to bring judgment whenever he wants to and however he wants to and on whomever he wants to. We cannot do that because none of us are better or worse than another human being.
Aaron’s sons Nadab and Abihu took their censers, put fire in them and added incense; and they offered unauthorized fire before the Lord, contrary to his command. 2 So fire came out from the presence of the Lord and consumed them, and they died before the Lord. 3 Moses then said to Aaron, “This is what the Lord spoke of when he said:
“‘Among those who approach me
I will be proved holy;
in the sight of all the people
I will be honored.’”
I will be proved holy;
in the sight of all the people
I will be honored.’”
Aaron remained silent. - Leviticus 10:1-3
Nadab and Abihu were not children when this happened. They were grown men and knew what they were doing but still chose to sin.
18 If someone has a stubborn and rebellious son who does not obey his father and mother and will not listen to them when they discipline him, 19 his father and mother shall take hold of him and bring him to the elders at the gate of his town. 20 They
shall say to the elders, “This son of ours is stubborn and rebellious.
He will not obey us. He is a glutton and a drunkard.” 21 Then all the men of his town are to stone him to death. You must purge the evil from among you. All Israel will hear of it and be afraid. - Deuteronomy 21:18-21
This passage is not trying to imply that young children would be treated this way. The passage is referring to an adult child. For example not cleaning your room would not get you stoned. It would have to be extreme and continuous.
29 At midnight the Lord struck down all the firstborn in Egypt, from the firstborn of Pharaoh, who sat on the throne, to the firstborn of the prisoner, who was in the dungeon, and the firstborn of all the livestock as well. - Exodus 12:29
God did not kill all the children...just the firstborn including adults. This points forward to all who were covered under the blood of Jesus will be saved just like the folks who painted the Passover lambs blood on their door posts were saved.
36 Then Joshua and all Israel with him went up from Eglon to Hebron and attacked it. - Joshua 10:36
IT was a war. Were they supposed to be tossing flowers and request surrender? I hope on one would really think that was appropriate.
Yet she was taken captive
and went into exile.
Her infants were dashed to pieces
at every street corner.
Lots were cast for her nobles,
and all her great men were put in chains. - Nahum 3:10
This was part of a prophecy explaining what was going to happen to the city of Nineveh It is about Judgement. They deserved it because of their Sins. But they deserved it no more than you or I.
29 And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or wife[a] or children or fields for my sake will receive a hundred times as much and will inherit eternal life - Matthew 19:29
Jesus was not commanding people to abandon their children or their families. In the context of the passage, Jesus was saying that we should love nothing more than Him. But if we loose our families (ie because we are killed for our belief and obedience to Him) because we put Jesus first He will take care of us. Jesus also commanded us to obey Him and He tells us that we must take care our our parents and children. Therefore we can't just abandon them. Therefore, Jesus is not telling us it's okay to abandon or neglect our families.
20 Nevertheless, I have this against you: You tolerate that woman Jezebel, who calls herself a prophet. By her teaching she misleads my servants into sexual immorality and the eating of food sacrificed to idols. 21 I have given her time to repent of her immorality, but she is unwilling. 22 So I will cast her on a bed of suffering, and I will make those who commit adultery with her suffer intensely, unless they repent of her ways. 23 I will strike her children dead. Then all the churches will know that I am he who searches hearts and minds, and I will repay each of you according to your deeds. - Revelations 2:20-23
In the last Scripture cited, again out of context, the children of a specific woman who misleads and perverts her position of teaching in a specific church at a specific time. Her sins are listed but we are not told if her her children are adults or younger or her name or much specific information. If you want to apply this for today, you can see that we are given a description of what a false prophet teacher looks like and what can happen to such a person. Don't be like her.
In looking at the passage again, I've got to point out that this particular church isn't being admonished because the have a woman as a leader and teacher. They are being warned against what she is teaching.
