Wednesday, June 25, 2025

The Proverbs Man

For most of my life, I have seen charts and infographics and study aids for how to apply Proverbs 31 to being a great woman of God. Although the entire book of Proverbs are applicable to everyone no matter their gender, I have seen very few examples of summarizing those principles for men. So I was excited to find the accompanying graphic:

Before anyone asks, No, I did not copy the graphic by manually typing the concepts into this post. Instead, I joined the 21st Century and prompted Microsoft Copilot to print out the concept headers and the full corresponding verses. Saved a lot of time. 

Here's the expanded list with each principle from Proverbs followed by the full verse (NIV translation):

  • Knows the power of gentle words
    “The soothing tongue is a tree of life, but a perverse tongue crushes the spirit.” — Proverbs 15:4

  • Keeps his cool in chaos
    “A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones.” — Proverbs 14:30

  • Knows when to walk away
    “Do not speak to fools, for they will scorn your prudent words.” — Proverbs 23:9

  • Listens more than he speaks
    “Even fools are thought wise if they keep silent, and discerning if they hold their tongues.” — Proverbs 17:28

  • Disciplines himself
    “Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge, but whoever hates correction is stupid.” — Proverbs 12:1

  • Avoids sensual traps
    “Do not lust in your heart after her beauty or let her captivate you with her eyes.” — Proverbs 6:25

  • Hates bribery and corruption
    “The wicked accept bribes in secret to pervert the course of justice.” — Proverbs 17:23

  • Does not mock others
    “Whoever mocks the poor shows contempt for their Maker; whoever gloats over disaster will not go unpunished.” — Proverbs 17:5

  • Emotional restraint
    “Fools give full vent to their rage, but the wise bring calm in the end.” — Proverbs 29:11

  • Does not boast about the future
    “Do not boast about tomorrow, for you do not know what a day may bring.” — Proverbs 27:1

  • Fear of the Lord
    “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and instruction.” — Proverbs 1:7

  • Corrects others gently
    “Whoever rebukes a person will in the end gain favor rather than one who has a flattering tongue.” — Proverbs 28:23

  • Values reputation over riches
    “A good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold.” — Proverbs 22:1

  • Guards his heart
    “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” — Proverbs 4:23

Would you like this formatted into a printable PDF or editable Google Doc next? I can also add journaling prompts or reflection questions if that would help deepen your study.