I don't know what's worse: giving in to others walking on egg shells for really silly reasons as to not offend others or thinking that we are being the bigger person. We're not. It's one thing to go into a Muslim household then slaughter a pig, eat a pig, and force them to eat it. Or invading their country and force our sensibilities down their gullets and taking everything they have. Those would be wrong. It's not the same things as just saying "ham" in a public place in a Western Country, like Spain.
Answering Muslims: Muslim Student Traumatized after Teacher Mentions Ham